Get The Guy. Stage One: Finding Him/Getting His Attention

get his attentionImagine you are online dating site. You have amazing pictures up, a good yet mysterious description, and a decent guy contacts you. A few exchanges later, you are really excited because he asks you on a date. If you are like many girls out there, you would put a little more care into getting ready for this date than you would if you, say, were going to work or the supermarket. You take the necessary steps to ensure you have the best chances of him finding you attractive, right?

So the thing is, while you’re going to the supermarket or work, you have JUST AS MUCH CHANCE if not MORE to attract a guy. There are loads of guys out there in your day-to-day life who would be bowled over by how you look on a date – so why not look like that everyday and maximise your chances?! You need to put in the same amount of effort as you would going on a date or as you would if you were taking an online dating profile picture.

The truth is anyone can be made attractive, it just takes some of us more work and effort than others. And if you think that’s shallow – take a reality check – the majority of men out notice women who they find attractive. Not saying that’s the only way to attract a man, but it’s the way to find a lot more new ones. And dating is a numbers game if you want the best quality.

If a man can see that you are making the best of what you have, he subconsciously knows that you take care of yourself. You don’t have to do what every other woman does or have the same hairstyle, just do what you know suits you, what gives you confidence!


For extra help, here are some of the things that The Rules advise. You don’t need to agree or follow, but these tips are if you want to attract as many men as possible. Dating is a numbers game!

♥ Wear a short skirt, but not too short – if you have the legs for it

♥ Wear stylish, sexy clothes with nice colours!

♥ Don’t be a fashion slave – Find out what suits you

♥ Diet and exercise – if you are overweight wear black, it’s slimming

♥ Wear makeup that suits you – never leave the house without makeup!

♥ Grow your hair long – men like long and feminine styles.

♥ Have good grooming habits – manicures, pedicures, facials

♥ Wear perfume

♥ Act like a woman, be happy and not depressed. Smile!


Don’t forget we have a secret Facebook group for any advice you may need..



Is He Taking You For Granted?

DIY spaI’m baaack! And it’s time to get you all sorted because I’m still inundated with emails from you girls about what to do when he’s TREATING YOU BAD! So I have news….!!!

You can now join our INVISIBLE, SECRET group on Facebook to ask your questions to me and the other experienced girls!

You can find it here! Once you’ve clicked join I will approve as soon as I can. But why join? You’ll…

♥ Get all the information you could need on getting that guy! If he has pulled back, lost interest or isn’t texting/calling you, we’ll tell you why and how to fix it!

♥ Find out a bit more about how a guy’s interest peaks up and down and how to make it a bit more consistent.

♥ Have ALL and ANY questions answered by members who are experienced and knowledgeable about the best tools!

So join Glam Guide’s Get The Guy secret group today and don’t forget to like us on Facebook!

Cheers to that,

Stephanie x



When Should You Text Your Boyfriend?

how often should you text your boyfriend?

Reading The Rules changed my love life – but reading the new rules has prepared me even more, especially when it comes to texting. So if you want to know how to proceed with texting your boyfriend, including when you should text back, then read The Rules!

“All Rules Girls know not to call men and to rarely return their calls, a Rule that still applies today. But technology has changed so much in the last fifteen years that a text cannot always be treated in the exact same way.

A guy will call again if he doesn’t get you, but texting is sort of like a phone call that reaches you every time: there’s never a bad time for either party and it’s never intrusive.”

Fein, Ellen; Schneider, Sherrie (2013-01-08). The New Rules: The dating dos and don’ts for the digital generation from the bestselling authors of The Rules (pp. 46-47). Piatkus. Kindle Edition.

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How To Change Your Guy

Maybe you’ve heard the old-school advice that you can never change a man.

That, apparently, when you meet a guy you should decide pretty early on in the relationship if you can live with his annoying traits or habits because they will never be changed.

I’m here to tell you that old advice is bull. From experience.

What applies to him, also applies to you. You may notice that men don’t try to change women very often. They just accept you for who you are or they leave. They already intuitively understand the importance principle…

If you want someone to change, they never will.

You may find disagreement with this statement. But let me ask you. If you have managed to change a man in any way, how long did the change or improvement last? Was it done whole-heartedly? Did old habits creep back in?

The best, most effective, way to change a man is this.

Approve of him.

Basically give your man the message that you are 100% happy with the way he is at this moment in time. The person he is today.

Make him feel AMAZING.

He’ll probably be a little surprised. So be really genuine and make sure he believes it. He’ll love it, especially if it’s a change to the usual subtle nagging he may receive.

Now that he feels he is pleasing you, he will go out of his way to think of ways to make you gush over him even more because he WANTS you to think he’s even MORE amazing. He’ll want more approval.

What does this do? It makes him open to change and he’ll think its his own decision.

Make him think it’s his idea.

If you want something, don’t want it. Learn to live without it. Then you’ll get it.

No more resentment. No more nagging. No more arguments. Just two people in bliss.

The more he loves you, the more he feels happy with you, the more he’ll change. Let me know if it works.


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