Get The Guy. Stage One: Finding Him/Getting His Attention

get his attentionImagine you are online dating site. You have amazing pictures up, a good yet mysterious description, and a decent guy contacts you. A few exchanges later, you are really excited because he asks you on a date. If you are like many girls out there, you would put a little more care into getting ready for this date than you would if you, say, were going to work or the supermarket. You take the necessary steps to ensure you have the best chances of him finding you attractive, right?

So the thing is, while you’re going to the supermarket or work, you have JUST AS MUCH CHANCE if not MORE to attract a guy. There are loads of guys out there in your day-to-day life who would be bowled over by how you look on a date – so why not look like that everyday and maximise your chances?! You need to put in the same amount of effort as you would going on a date or as you would if you were taking an online dating profile picture.

The truth is anyone can be made attractive, it just takes some of us more work and effort than others. And if you think that’s shallow – take a reality check – the majority of men out notice women who they find attractive. Not saying that’s the only way to attract a man, but it’s the way to find a lot more new ones. And dating is a numbers game if you want the best quality.

If a man can see that you are making the best of what you have, he subconsciously knows that you take care of yourself. You don’t have to do what every other woman does or have the same hairstyle, just do what you know suits you, what gives you confidence!


For extra help, here are some of the things that The Rules advise. You don’t need to agree or follow, but these tips are if you want to attract as many men as possible. Dating is a numbers game!

♥ Wear a short skirt, but not too short – if you have the legs for it

♥ Wear stylish, sexy clothes with nice colours!

♥ Don’t be a fashion slave – Find out what suits you

♥ Diet and exercise – if you are overweight wear black, it’s slimming

♥ Wear makeup that suits you – never leave the house without makeup!

♥ Grow your hair long – men like long and feminine styles.

♥ Have good grooming habits – manicures, pedicures, facials

♥ Wear perfume

♥ Act like a woman, be happy and not depressed. Smile!


Don’t forget we have a secret Facebook group for any advice you may need..



Is He Taking You For Granted?

DIY spaI’m baaack! And it’s time to get you all sorted because I’m still inundated with emails from you girls about what to do when he’s TREATING YOU BAD! So I have news….!!!

You can now join our INVISIBLE, SECRET group on Facebook to ask your questions to me and the other experienced girls!

You can find it here! Once you’ve clicked join I will approve as soon as I can. But why join? You’ll…

♥ Get all the information you could need on getting that guy! If he has pulled back, lost interest or isn’t texting/calling you, we’ll tell you why and how to fix it!

♥ Find out a bit more about how a guy’s interest peaks up and down and how to make it a bit more consistent.

♥ Have ALL and ANY questions answered by members who are experienced and knowledgeable about the best tools!

So join Glam Guide’s Get The Guy secret group today and don’t forget to like us on Facebook!

Cheers to that,

Stephanie x



My Boyfriend Has Lost Interest

rosesI get so many questions from girls telling me how their relationship started so well, that the guy was texting her every day and a result she was eager to please him. But recently he seems to be more interested in the guys, football, gaming, work…whatever the case may be. Maybe he’s said that he’s just not sure about the relationship anymore. So the girl goes into panic mode and over compensates…the more she does, the less interested he seems. What should be the next step in this situation.

The only way to rescue this situation is to PULL BACK.

–          Stop texting him back in nanoseconds – wait for an hour to four hours depending on your age, there is a text back times chart in the book NYMR.

–          Don’t answer ALL of his texts, only the ones with questions.

–          Don’t agree to LMDs (Last Minute Dates). All dates should be made at least 3 days in advance.

–          Start dating others if you’ve been together for a while and there seems to be no going forward ie. No hints of engagement, or any solid concrete plans. Depending on your age you should wait 1-2.5 years.

If you want to know more about how to pull back from your boyfriend and regain his interest or reignite that spark that’s missing from the relationship then I really recommend you to read The Rules. This book changed my life completely and has taught me so much about men. The secret to getting the guy you want is essentially not to do anything. It sounds a bit absurd, I know, but there’s a lot more to it than that. The Rules are pretty old school, so there’s a new book that the authors have released called Not Your Mothers Rules – this is basically a renewed version of the rules that talks about 21st century dating such as how to do the rules with facebook, texting, twitter, etc. I would fully recommend you never converse with a guy through Twitter anyway, so unromantic!

When Should You Text Your Boyfriend?

how often should you text your boyfriend?

Reading The Rules changed my love life – but reading the new rules has prepared me even more, especially when it comes to texting. So if you want to know how to proceed with texting your boyfriend, including when you should text back, then read The Rules!

“All Rules Girls know not to call men and to rarely return their calls, a Rule that still applies today. But technology has changed so much in the last fifteen years that a text cannot always be treated in the exact same way.

A guy will call again if he doesn’t get you, but texting is sort of like a phone call that reaches you every time: there’s never a bad time for either party and it’s never intrusive.”

Fein, Ellen; Schneider, Sherrie (2013-01-08). The New Rules: The dating dos and don’ts for the digital generation from the bestselling authors of The Rules (pp. 46-47). Piatkus. Kindle Edition.

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What To Do If Your Boyfriend Is Taking You For Granted

UNFORTUNATELY, Valentines day is coming up.

I say unfortunately because some of us dread it.


Valentines Day is definitely one of the biggest opportunities you get in the whole timespan of your relationship to see if you are being taken for granted.

So are you? If not, you’re a lucky bitch. Quite literally.


What To Read When Your Boyfriend Doesn’t Text You Back

How long should I wait to respond to his text message? Can I friend him on Facebook? Why did he ask for my number but never call me?

I am so excited that the rules have been refreshed, updated and republished for 2013!

(For a discussion on all things rules-related, head to the forum!)

When The Rules was published in 1995, its message was straightforward: be mysterious. But for women looking for love today, it’s not quite so simple. In a world of instant messaging, location check-ins, and status updates, where hook-ups have become the norm and formal one-on-one dates seem a thing of the past, it’s difficult to retain the air of mystery that keeps men interested.

Now, with help from their daughters, the original Rules Girls Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider share their thoroughly modern, fresh take on dating that will help women in today’s information age create the happy love lives they want and deserve. Whether you’re a 20-something dating for the first time, a 30-something tired of being single, a 40-something giving advice to your daughter, or a 50-something getting back in the dating game, this book has the answers you’ve been waiting for. The Rules include:

Stay Away from his Facebook Profile
Make Yourself Invisible and Other Ways to Get Out of Instant Messaging
Stop Dating a Guy Who Cancels More than Once
Text-Back Times Chart
Don’t Just Hang Out or See Him 24/7
TTYL: Always End Everything First– Get Out of There!
And much, much more!

Providing the dos and don’ts you need to stop making mistakes and start finding romance, NOT YOUR MOTHER’S RULES will revolutionize dating today just as The Rules did nearly 20 years ago!

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